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xamarin forms find the grid.row property of an element

var button = (Button)sender;
var row = Grid.GetRow(button);
var grid = button.Parent as Grid;
//assuming the image is in column 1
var image = grid.Children.Where(c => Grid.GetRow(c) == row && Grid.GetColumn(c)==1);

xamarin forms set the grid row property of an element programmatically

tblock.SetValue(Grid.RowProperty, 4);

xamarin forms set the grid row property of an element programmatically

Grid.SetRow(tblock, 4);